Why Talking to Children Like Adults Builds Strong Thinkers
Did you know that the way adults speak to children between the ages of 3 and 6 can shape how well they do in school later on? Researchers in the Netherlands have found that when adults treat children as real conversation partners—asking questions, using rich vocabulary, and listening carefully—they help children build something called academic language. This is the type of language needed for reading, writing, and success in the classroom.
What Is Academic Language?
Academic language is the more formal way of using words that children hear in school settings. It includes words like “compare,” “predict,” or “reason.” It’s not usually heard during casual play or while watching cartoons. Children who are exposed to more complex conversations at home are better prepared to understand and use this kind of language once they enter school.
Talking With Children, Not At Them
One key finding from researchers is that talking with children, instead of simply to them, makes a big difference. That means:
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Asking open-ended questions like “What do you think will happen next?”
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Encouraging children to explain their thoughts: “Why do you think that?”
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Using descriptive words and new vocabulary in everyday situations
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Listening actively and responding as if in a two-way conversation
These small changes help children feel respected, understood, and motivated to communicate more clearly and confidently.
Why This Age Matters
Between the ages of 3 and 6, children’s brains are especially flexible. This is a perfect time to help them build a strong foundation for language—both their home language and a second language. The more meaningful and engaging the interactions, the better their brain develops skills like memory, attention, and reasoning.
Language Learning with Playful Purpose
If you’re looking for a fun and natural way to help your child develop strong language skills in a second language, Dinolingo offers age-appropriate resources designed for children ages 2 to 14. Through songs, stories, videos, flashcards, and games, Dinolingo encourages children to listen actively, speak confidently, and build vocabulary—all while having fun. The program works on web, iOS, and Android, supports offline learning, and includes a parent dashboard to track progress.
Every Conversation Counts
The words you share with your child today can shape their success tomorrow. By turning everyday moments into back-and-forth conversations, you’re doing more than teaching language—you’re building a confident, curious, and expressive thinker.