How to Be Polite in Denmark: Greetings, Dining, and Social Etiquette
Learning about another culture includes more than just language—it’s also about understanding how people greet each other, behave at meals, and show respect. Danish culture values simplicity, thoughtfulness, and respect for personal space. Here’s a guide to help children and families understand common customs in Denmark.
Friendly Greetings with a Handshake
When meeting someone in Denmark, a polite handshake and eye contact are expected. Smiling is also important. Whether you’re saying hello or goodbye, it’s polite to shake hands with everyone in the room—including children. In many cases, people greet women first.
Visiting Someone’s Home
If you’re invited to someone’s house in Denmark, it’s thoughtful to bring a small gift. This might be a bottle of wine, a box of sweets, flowers, or even a book. When you arrive, take off your shoes before entering the home—this is a common practice in many Danish households.
During the visit, you might be offered to help set the table or clean up. It’s kind to offer, even if the host says it’s not necessary.
Dining Table Manners
There are a few special rules at the dinner table. You should not start eating until the host or hostess begins. If there’s one piece of food left on a plate, it’s polite not to take it. Try to eat most of what you’re served to show appreciation for the meal.
When toasting or speaking, making eye contact is seen as respectful. You should also avoid placing your wrists on the edge of the table. In Denmark, meals are often slow and social—be patient and enjoy the conversations.
Social Customs and Personal Space
Danish people value their privacy and quietness. It’s not common to visit someone without an invitation, and it’s considered rude to interrupt someone who is speaking. Public displays of emotion or loud arguments are rare, as people tend to stay calm and respectful.
In everyday conversations, Danish people are informal. There might not be official introductions at social events—you can simply begin talking. While people may not ask “how are you?” right away, this doesn’t mean they are unfriendly. It’s just a cultural difference.
Being on time is very important in Denmark, whether it’s a dinner, a meeting, or a playdate. Saying thank you is always appreciated, as Danish people are thoughtful and enjoy being shown gratitude.
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