How Filipino Kids Talk to Elders (and Why It’s Beautiful)
One of the most beautiful parts of Filipino culture is how children speak to their elders—with kindness, respect, and warmth built right into the language. In Tagalog, this isn’t just about using polite words it’s a whole way of thinking that teaches children how to connect with others in thoughtful ways.
Two of the most important words kids learn early are “po” and “opo.”
- “Po” is added to a sentence to show respect, like in “Salamat po” (Thank you, sir/ma’am).
- “Opo” is a polite way to say yes to someone older.
These small words carry big meaning. Children use them when speaking to grandparents, parents, teachers, or any adult. And in return, they often receive gentle smiles or kind words back—because in Filipino culture, respect is a two-way street.
Other polite phrases include:
“Mano po.” – A respectful greeting where a child takes the elder’s hand and touches it to their forehead.
“Magandang umaga po.” – Good morning (respectful).
“Paalam po.” – Goodbye (with respect).
While programs like Dinolingo focus on teaching basic Tagalog in fun, age-appropriate ways, they also help kids pick up these respectful patterns naturally through greetings, songs, and conversations that model kind behavior.
Try These Fun Activities
Role-Play Respect
Practice polite phrases through pretend scenarios greeting a grandparent, saying thank you to a teacher, or asking permission politely.
Family Tree Respect Game
Create a family tree and have your child practice saying “po” and “opo” to each person on it, reinforcing when and why we show respect.
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